It all comes down to your mentality. Your mentality directs the actions that you take.
The truth is people are competitive and will want to hit you with the worst possible – they will want to drown you and hit you with a fire extinguisher to ensure that you do not get ahead.
Being successful is as much about dealing with the negative emotions as much as anything else. When you really go for what you want you are going to have detractors: there’s no doubt about it. Every human has had a personal struggle with negative emotions, it’s important to know how to deal with negative emotions. This is because it affects your health and mental wellbeing.
The best outcome someone can have is to ensure that they are collaborating with even their competitors. Everyone has some value to offer – an alternative approach that you may not have considered. That is where the value comes from in working as part of a team. Everyone brings their unique difference that delivers the best result.
It is important to take cue of why someone is serving you negative emotion. Negative emotion can come from jealousy as much as anything else. People may decide that they want something you have so they will give you negative energy as a result.
You could be on the receiving end of negative emotion because you are doing the wrong thing: you keep saying the wrong things at the wrong time, you never dress well, you have no social life – the list goes on and on.
Changing your status quo requires reaching out and pushing outside your comfort zone. Keeping in mind that automatically as soon as you push outside your comfort zone you will be hit with negative energy. You are changing your frequency and the interactions you have with other people. People who are used to you being the way you are will not be happy.
At this point it is important to not to give in to this kind of bashing. You do not want to completely tell people to get stuffed – at the same time you want to drive change and move in a different direction. This is the most difficult period and is a struggle, but it is a struggle the best of us have to go through to become a better person
When going through this struggle it is important to tap into a community that are going to support your change. A community that are going to keep things fresh and ultimately lift you up. They will provide a balance to the negativity you constantly experience. But you will still have to battle the negativity: that is never ending.
It is important to always remember that you are an individual and so is everyone else. The least that someone can do is to direct a negative message towards you or show some kind of physical aggression. These are displays of problems that they are having in their own lives.
The most important thing is that you are presenting your best self to people at all times. People are human and their negativity is going to be at work at all times. It is crucial to take heed of this and weather it in a way that enables you to get the best result. Getting what you want takes fortitude in the mind, not giving in to other people’s negativity and giving yourself the best chance of becoming a well-rounded person.